I really like Xanthe's stories, but for me, too, the dynamic, in particular between "our" John and Rodney didn't quite work. I simply don't see John as wanting that much control. I did like certain parts of the "controlling the rest of the sub's life" thing, again, going towards the theme of taking care of someone.
Xanthe's stories (and also Mithreon's to a degree) have been quite inspiring for me and I've been toying with an idea for a John/Rodney lifestyle BDSM fic that works for me personally (which is really full of compromises, because I tend to see John more as a sub, but Rodney as Dom is an absolute no-go for me, at least in a full on lifestyle BDSM fic, where he's not just faking his way through a scene for John's sake).
I'm always like, "Wow, you totally missed the point." Oh, I see. I have to say, I haven't read all that many rape fics. They were either serious or had that typical cock-heals-all element, which... well, if there's at least some semblance of dealing with it before he says he's ready to be fucked by the one he loves... okay. Because if I want to read about how to cope with rape, I'll not look for it in fanfic. Of course I still very much appreciate if it's handled well in a fic, but it's not necessarily a requirement.
I have a bit of a kink for sleepy-sex. Oooh, I've actually written that. Here (http://velocitygrass.livejournal.com/14013.html).
SGA BDSM recs? You know, I think I meant to and never did. I should definitely change that. That would be great. Especially if it discusses the content a bit and goes beyond the Spanking, D/s categories that e.g. Crossroads offers.
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Xanthe's stories (and also Mithreon's to a degree) have been quite inspiring for me and I've been toying with an idea for a John/Rodney lifestyle BDSM fic that works for me personally (which is really full of compromises, because I tend to see John more as a sub, but Rodney as Dom is an absolute no-go for me, at least in a full on lifestyle BDSM fic, where he's not just faking his way through a scene for John's sake).
I'm always like, "Wow, you totally missed the point."
Oh, I see. I have to say, I haven't read all that many rape fics. They were either serious or had that typical cock-heals-all element, which... well, if there's at least some semblance of dealing with it before he says he's ready to be fucked by the one he loves... okay. Because if I want to read about how to cope with rape, I'll not look for it in fanfic. Of course I still very much appreciate if it's handled well in a fic, but it's not necessarily a requirement.
I have a bit of a kink for sleepy-sex.
Oooh, I've actually written that. Here (http://velocitygrass.livejournal.com/14013.html).
SGA BDSM recs? You know, I think I meant to and never did. I should definitely change that.
That would be great. Especially if it discusses the content a bit and goes beyond the Spanking, D/s categories that e.g. Crossroads offers.