Cool. I feel like I should figure it out more in my head first but thank you for the encouragement. Part of it is I feel like I'm getting *myself* into fandoms that are all about white boys and I knew that going in so I have only myself to blame. (I don't want to harsh on anyone else's squee but sometimes I just feel like saying "oh great, another band/show full of white boys I can't even tell apart. Why should I care and don't just say because they're precious.")

The human beings who just also happen to be some bandboy's gf.
Yeah, exactly.

Hey are you into bandom? *memory fail*